How to Dress Like You Are Worth It

by lydia on May 12, 2017

Do you dress like you are worth it? Do you wear things that you like, that light you up, that you enjoy wearing, and make you happy and feel good about yourself?

What your clothes say about you … it’s not just about ‘fashion.’ It’s about self-care, self-worth and wanting your outside to reflect what is on the inside.

When we look in the mirror and like what we are seeing, we are essentially telling ourselves we like ourselves. It’s the ultimate act of self-care, in other words, how much you care about yourself. It’s more about your attitude than what you are actually wearing, but dang girl, it sure is fun to find clothes that reflect our inner truth. And, we get to express ourselves for who we are uniquely….that’s huge! It means we are valuing our unique personality by allowing our personal style to show!

I used to not understand how important this was because I never really valued myself.

Maybe you’ve already heard me talk about healing from adrenal fatigue and a big part of that was re-framing my mindset and really learning to love myself.

You see, I grew up with very little self-worth, which led to me marrying someone who also did not value me. Not to mention, all the relationships prior to that where I just didn’t believe enough in myself or know my worth.

This led to how I viewed myself both inside and out. It led to me not prioritizing my own self-care, especially when it came to my outer beauty.

For years, I accepted hand-me-downs that were ill-fitting, not stylish, and not even attractive on me. I didn’t feel like it was okay for me to splurge on myself and that I had to sacrifice that area of my life so I could make room in my budget for more of the kids’ needs.

This led to me never wanting to go out because I felt insecure about my appearance.

It led to me feeling unattractive, even though people told me all the time how pretty I was. It led to me feel small and not able to shine with confidence, like I do now.

Not knowing my own self-worth for so many years of my life felt quite crippling, actually. I never knew how to do my hair or wear my makeup, mostly because I didn’t ever believe I deserved to take the time away from other areas of my life to make myself look attractive on the outside.

And here’s the thing, I really want to impart through this tale I’m sharing…

Without self-worth and if you don’t think you are valuable, you will end up surrounding yourself with people who don’t value you and it won’t help you with your health goals either.

Ask me how I know.

After spending significant time focused on deeper healing body, mind, soul and spirit through coaching and emotional freedom support….I  FINALLY started to allow my outside match up with how I  was feeling on the inside. And guess what?

People are more noticeably affected by me when I show up with confidence radiating my inner beauty. I get to attract people to myself and share my unique gifts and passion with the world, and I’ll be damned if that’s not immensely valuable.

So, you want to know how to dress like you are worth it? You’ve got to know deep down that you are SO FREAKING WORTH IT!

That all shared, here’s one of my FAVORITE ways to dress like I am worth it… it’s so fun and super convenient too because it saves you time! Check out the videos below…



How Stitch Fix Works

Stitch Fix is the first fashion retailer to blend expert styling, proprietary technology, and unique product to deliver a shopping experience that is truly personalized for you. Simply fill out the Stitch Fix Style Profile and their personal stylists will handpick a selection of five clothing items and accessories unique to your taste, budget, and lifestyle. You can buy what you like and return the rest!

1. Fill out your Style Profile

Begin by filling out the Style Profile. This helps them understand your size, style, shape, budget, and lifestyle. Completing your profile should only take about 10 minutes.

2. Pick the date you’d like to receive your shipment

They’ll send you a selection of five clothing items and accessories handpicked by personal stylists on the date you choose. At the time your stylist selects your items, you will be charged a $20 styling fee. That $20 will be applied as a credit toward anything you keep from your shipment.

3. Try everything on in the comfort of your home

They encourage you to try on everything their personal stylists pick for you because you just never know what will look great on! Create new outfits by pairing what’s in your shipment with the items that are already in your closet.

4. Buy what you like and return the rest

  • Take three days to decide what you’ll purchase and what you’d like to send back. You’re only charged for these items when you tell them what you’re keeping and returning.
  • Check out by logging into your account to pay for those items you want to keep. The $20 styling fee will be applied as credit towards any items you purchase. If you buy all five items, they will give you 25% off the entire purchase!
  • Simply return the items you don’t want in the pre-paid mailing bag and drop it at any USPS mailbox. Stitch Fix clients enjoy free shipping both ways as a benefit of using the service!

5. Tell them what you think!

Don’t forget to give specific feedback on each of the items you receive. The personal stylists are able to send you better selections when they know what did and didn’t work for you, and why. Their blog offers a number of tips on the best ways to communicate with your personal stylist.

If you choose to receive regularly scheduled shipments, they will automatically schedule the delivery date for your next shipment. You can always choose an alternative date that better suits your needs or opt out of regularly scheduled shipments entirely. Stitch Fix does not require a membership fee or a monthly subscription.

How is Stitch Fix Different Than Shopping Online or in a Store?

The Stitch Fix experience is not merely curated, it’s truly personalized to your taste, budget, and lifestyle. Personal stylists handpick a selection of five items just for you. In fact, no two clients have ever received the same selection of items!

Stitch Fix makes shopping not just convenient, but effortless. Like other online retailers, Stitch Fix saves you a trip to the store by shipping items directly to you. But their personal stylists also save you the time and trouble of selecting clothing and accessories.

With Stitch Fix, your home becomes your dressing room. They encourage you to try everything on in the comfort of your home and see how the items we send work with what’s already in your closet.

Returns are easy at Stitch Fix. Simply slip the items you’re returning into the prepaid mailing envelope and drop it into any USPS mailbox. Shipping is always free at Stitch Fix!

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